Valentine’s Day tends to be a lonely time of year for singles, but it does not have to be. Instead of focusing on the romantic aspects of love, focus on showing the love of friendship & family. Here are a few ideas for having a great Valentine’s Day.

Call up some friends you have not seen in a long time & go out for dinner as a group. It is always fun to reminisce over old times. Enjoy a nice relaxed dinner together & just have fun. Treat the waitress or waiter with a good tip, as they probably did not want to work on Valentine’s Day.

Do you know a couple with kids who never go out because they just do not feel they can afford a babysitter? Offer them a free night of babysitting. Let them enjoy a kid-free night to be a couple again. They would really appreciate a dinner with adult conversation. In return, you get to spend the evening with some real sweethearts.

If you have a teenaged sibling, cousin, niece or nephew that does not have a boyfriend or girlfriend, take them out for a fun night. Grab a bite to eat where you can talk & you might be surprised :o what you could learn from each other. Then do something active, something that you have not done in a long time, or maybe something you have always wanted to try, but you have been reluctant to.

Take the time to visit a retirement home. Many of the residents do not have much family or friends anymore. They always love visitors & are more than willing to share their stories with you… Contact the activities director & see if they mind if you throw a little party. Ask some other friends to join you, bring some cards, music & have a great time.

Think of something you have always wanted to learn & see if you can find a class & register. Learn to paint, or draw. Take dancing lessons. Not only will you meet new people, you will learn a new skill that may lead to a lifelong passion for a new hobby.

Don’t let being single stop you from enjoying life. Love yourself first & enjoy doing things for yourself. Before you know it, you will be one of those married with kids desperate for a baby sitter.

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