In many ancient practices & religions the number 7 has always been considered sacred & magical. It symbolizes completeness. Valentines Day is right around the corner & what better time to experience completeness than on that special day of love. This is the time of year that most people are running around trying to figure out what they can do differently in order to impress their significant other as well as out-do what they did last year. Yeah, sure you can get a reservation at your favorite restaurant, but why not join the ranks of the ancient Goddesses by using these 7 tips.. This year I have used some of my psychic juices & dug a little deeper to show you how to create a perfect tantalizing evening.

Don’t worry, you do not have to tell me, remember I am the psychic; you are on a budget right? We’re going to keep it simple. Here we go:

The Magic of Flowers

1. Surprise your mate when they walk in by presenting them with a bouquet of beautiful, sweet smelling flowers. Make sure they’re colorful. Flowers have a magic of their own & will set off an energy that will move throughout the remainder of the evening. Be sure to have candles & incense burning throughout the area that you’ll be spending most of your time. 2. Place many love notes in areas that you know your mate will find them that are reminders of the times you have spent together. This gesture will put your mate into a mild ecstasy & will be wondering what’s in store for the rest of the evening.

In case you do not know it; you have already began the romancing. It all begins from your energy & with mental stimulations. Your mates mind is now ripe for what’s to follow.

3. Re-create your First Date It does not matter whether your first date together was good or bad :cry: in your mind. Trust me, it was all good & meant to happen exactly as it happened. Try & remember that one moment, that one instance when the ice was broken & you knew that you were happy :) that you showed up. Recreate your first date no matter what the location was or whether you perceived it as good or bad. You should always celebrate the moment that you first meet. If it’s not convenient for you to create the exact moment you can just remind your mate verbally while having dinner. 4. Bring a gift to the table & have it waiting for the right moment. Do not allow them to open it until you have have had your dinner. The suspense is further setting the tone for the evening. The exhilaration from surprise :o & suspense are mental stimulants that will put your mate in the right mood.

5. Your favorite Romantic Songs If you have a special song for both of you, the chances are that you probably have it already. You should not have to spend money on new music. I know that you have a computer at home otherwise you could not actually be reading this article; access itunes, windows media player and/or win amp. All you really need to do is buy a few songs for .79 or .99 cent from itunes & you’ll have some good music to go with the night. Create a playlist for 3 to 4 hours. Select one special song that is new to your mate that only you have listened to; share it with them & let them know why this song has a special meaning for you… Your music selection needs to be soft; with a gentle melody.

6. Chocolate Pleasures Not only does this forbidden pleasure taste good but Aztecs believed that chocolate had aphrodisiac qualities. I am here to confirm that the Aztec’s were right on target; chocolate is an aphrodisiac & we’re blessed it tastes so good too. Let us get creative. After dinner; find a very nice dish to melt the chocolate into it; you’ll only use fruit & fingers to dip & serve each other. This is very sensual & satisfying. You can contact me for instructions on melting chocolate: http://www.kasamba.com/AskDr.Keys

7. Drum roll please – Bedroom Place tons of candles in the bedroom & bathroom. You want the rooms to be lit by candlelight only. Place scents of sandalwood & amber in the rooms either in the form of potpourri or plug-ins. Sprinkle a trail of rose petals leading from the door to the bedroom to the bed. Put on something sexy & lay out a sexy outfit for your partner. Congratulations you have just created your very own “love potion”.

Dr. Keys is a Author, Teacher & Life Coach with a PhD in Transpersonal Psychology. She’s has just completed the book “You Are What You Think, 7 Principles To Creating The Life You Want”