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Does marriage counseling work for husband with a midlife crisis?

Corry — Thu, 26 Jan 2012 21:48:50 +0000

Question by The Prototype: Does marriage counseling work for husband with a midlife crisis?
I am in a midlife crisis by having regrets and questioning about my life and wondering about my youth.

Has it helped anyone? Thanks.

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Answer by letterstoheather
therapy works when we work it.

otherwise it’s a waste of time.

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Do you believe counseling helps in a marriage when only the cheating husband goes and not the wife?

Corry — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 23:48:22 +0000

Question by italy9: Do you believe counseling helps in a marriage when only the cheating husband goes and not the wife?
Has anyone had a better marriage after counseling? He has anger issues, domestic violence and had an affair for 4 yrs.! Counseling is the last try to saving the marriage, but I just don’t see it happening w/o both in counseling…….

Best answer:

Answer by Darius Denzel Wesley
not really you should do something about it

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What clothing/outfits would women like to see their husband wear on the honeymoon?

Corry — Sun, 18 Sep 2011 06:48:47 +0000

Question by C: What clothing/outfits would women like to see their husband wear on the honeymoon? I am looking to purchase some clothing/outfits for my honeymoon, and I wanted some input from females regarding what women would like to see their significant other in? Best answer: Answer by Timpantyhose! Know better? Leave your own answer More >

How to surprise my husband on our honeymoon?

Corry — Fri, 16 Sep 2011 16:51:30 +0000

Question by pb335: How to surprise my husband on our honeymoon?
I want to do something special for my husband at our honeymoon. We are going to Thailand and I would like some original ideas. Please don’t tell me to dress up in sexy lingerie or costumes , I really want to do something to make him feel special and appreciated, and be original at the same time. We will be staying at many different places- big city, jungle, and beach so I’m open to any suggestions. Thanks

Best answer:

Answer by Pebbles
read up on how to give a killer massage!

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Should a husband tell his wife about his romantic past?

Corry — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 04:48:33 +0000

It is a very interesting topic for debate. After getting married both the husband and wife should think about their future and should have a clear cut planning about it. About their size of their family; their family income; whether it is sufficient to have their both ends meet; if any one of them have issues, to think about their future etc. Of course, the couple should also discuss about their sex life privately to know each others’ taste and methods and mental preferences.

But their discussion on sex life should have a limit and the husband should not transgress it to the extent of exposing him as a sexually perverted person and it should serve only as an introduction to their sex life so as to make each other to adjust him or her according to the needs and tastes of the other.

There is a general saying or a famous quote in Tamil, Just search for something in each mans’ heart, there will certainly be a darker side unknown to others or unraveled by anybody else.’ Let that darker side be about your sex life or about your romantic past.

Your discussion with your wife about your romantic past without concealing anything may show you as a sexual maniac in the eyes of your wife, thereby she may develop some kind of aversion against you and even think about you very lowly that will disturb her mental equilibrium and develop some sort of complex in her. Above all she may even lose her self-confidence in her sex life, thereby creating a cyclical impact on everything in her day today life.

There is no use of crying over the spilt milk. Similarly there is no use of harping on the glory of your past romantic life. It is better to concentrate on the present than dwelling on the useless past. It does not mean that the past is entirely useless. If you or your sexual partner had encountered any peculiar physical problem connected with sex in the past, it is better to recall it and use it in the present context and it may even be helpful to save your wife from an embarrassing situation or position and even help her to have a good opinion about you in the family life. On the other hand if you go on discussing all and sundry of your romantic life, the net result will be zero and it may even backfire against you.

Therefore, in the best interest of your sex life as well as the family life, you should be selective and choosy in discussing about your past romantic life, which means that you can discuss about your romantic life of the past provided that it serves and found to be useful either to you or your wife in the present life. Barring those episodes which have some sort of utility and relevance in your day to day life, it is better not to tell all about your romantic past to your wife lest it may be treated and dismissed just as rubbish, useless and nonsense, besides backfiring against you.

Therefore, it may be safely concluded that you should think twice before discussing about your romantic past with your wife and it is always better not to tell anything to your wife about your romantic past, in the best interest of your present life.

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How do I save my marriage, my husband just up and left me and said it’s done it’s only been 3 days is there ho?

Corry — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 23:48:48 +0000

Question by xoxo: How do I save my marriage, my husband just up and left me and said it’s done it’s only been 3 days is there ho?
He said it was because he didn’t trust me, we got married really young but have been together 6 years our marriage only lasted 1 year and 2 months can I still fix things?

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Answer by Pedo Bear
Sometimes things happen for a reason.

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Should you forgive your husband or wife for having a full blown affairs for months?

Corry — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 03:49:34 +0000

Question by islandgirl06: Should you forgive your husband or wife for having a full blown affairs for months?
In my own opinion, I wouldn’t because my life with him will not be the same anymore. what about you?

Best answer:

Answer by Rocky
well I would not, after all better -worst – rich – poor – forsaking all others, not a person of their word, is not a person I choose to have in my life

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How would you plan romantic evening with your husband?

Corry — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 14:48:13 +0000

Question by CMJ: How would you plan romantic evening with your husband?
I am a stay mom and I want at least one romantic evening with my husband. But the thing is we no money and can’t afford a baby sitter, so what would you do?

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Answer by Curtis Jackson
i would stay at home cook a lovely dinner or something like that and then buy a gift or something its up to you if you wanna have sex but yeah tottaly up to you make sure you check on the baby lol

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How can I deal with my husband cheating on me?

Corry — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 03:49:33 +0000

Question by Micaela: How can I deal with my husband cheating on me?
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m aware that my husband is cheating with a woman he met online. I’ve confronted him about it, and he asked me to give him another chance, which I did. I recently discovered that the affair is still going on. He’s knows that I know about it, yet he continues to cheat. The obvious answer would be to divorce him, but he had a heart attack a couple of weeks ago, and the stress could kill him. I can’t keep watching this happen without losing my sanity. What should I do?

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Answer by Epona Willow
I have had 2 massive heart attacks. Don’t think for one second that the “stress” of you leaving him because he is a cheat is going to cause him death. He isn’t so weak that he has quit his affair!!!

Get out, get healed and move on to a full life that you richly deserve.

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How can I stop my husband from flirting with other women in front of me?

Corry — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 22:58:01 +0000

My husband and I attend meetings for a religious group. One of the females who sits at the table with us is constantly trying to get my husbands attention by showing her clevage to my husband. He always looks and her and I try to ignore it. But I cannot help to be extremely upset More >