Relationships, Romance and Dating
Seduction (for men)
Guys: Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
By Tiffany Taylor
Body language is very important. According to studies carried out over fifty percent of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say & less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.
What does this mean to you?
It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, & HOW you stand & HOW you act than it’s to WHAT you say (at least initially).
You see, you could have the BEST game in the world & be easily able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world & lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH & BURN.
Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we will go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. Do you follow? This article is about YOUR body language.
Ok… So, I will cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).
Body language basics:
1. Smile
You have to make the female feel at ease & comfortable that you’re a friendly & fun guy & you’re not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident & comfortable around women. A big & genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In actual fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You will be surprised 
by how many people smile back & at how many doors open to you… Smiling WORKS. Just do not make it a cheesy, fake smile 
2. Eye contact
As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she will wonder why her womanly powers do not work with you & she will seek your attention & subconsciously TRY to get you to look!
When talking to her, attempt to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you’re talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Do not stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul & I think there may be some truth to that… There’re even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – & from what I hear, they’re pretty successful.
Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.
3. Upright posture
Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you’re confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It is just generally more attractive & says lots about who you are. Plus it is good for your back & will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.
Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.
4. Gesticulate with open palms
You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).
I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language & this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I have adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – how ever, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal & non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!
Anyway, basically, when you’re talking to a woman & trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk & using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky & smile as you talk.
It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you’re being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you’re being straight with her, is important.
This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.
Those are the basics of body language, if you had like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor’s site by clicking here
How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Do not Know, And Get Them To Think You’re Great!
By Tiffany Taylor
For this example I am going to use women at a bar. I’ll be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we will stick with this.
(Note: In actual fact, I even recommend you attempt my top places for picking up that are not bars – they’re WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar & you will see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women do not usually go straight to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be very daunting & if you do not know what you are doing, you can fail BADLY with groups & like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I have seen men get cussed at, totally ignored & even drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I am from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably do not have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they do not know. Do not worry, this can be easily solved. I will give you some simple tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then do not worry, I’ve an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – & it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it does not matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you… It is a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall & when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she will smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they do not WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.
Step 2. Once you have gained confidence in making natural eye contact & a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I am not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice & repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you’re not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.
After you have smiled & said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you do not quit on your first negative response – this will happen & will happen when you are approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique & he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams & is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let us assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you do not know in a bar (Again, I do not just go into bar pickups in my book, in actual fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it is every day places where you are not competing with other single guys).
Firstly, let us suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one & one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of & would like to get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them & talk to them NOW! Do not waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule & I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her & like her, it is best not to think too much about the approach, or you are more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you will just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I will tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar & approach from behind you’ll INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, & they will be put on the defensive – for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side…
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How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact
By Tiffany Taylor
Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm & pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility & physical closeness? If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just “go for it” & consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they do not want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what’s the solution to this awkward problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore do not appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you are a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls & even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. OK. So, let us take a look.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that is simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression & create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually & gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. Do you follow? The outside of a woman’s arm isn’t intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it is a clear-cut sign that you are a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Do not actually be afraid to give it a attempt – you’ll notice the benefits immediately.
2. Once you have started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it is important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond & rapport you have already created & also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘Stealth Tactility’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. By example, if she wants to go straight to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Lastly, always attempt to use a ‘contact close’ when you finish your conversation with a girl. By example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug & a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you & really can not wait to see you again.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide that reveals for the first time what goes on the minds of women AND how men can use special psychological & social techniques to attract & seduce them – regardless of their looks, bank balance or the car they drive. Attract And Seduce Women Today
How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’ by Tiffany Taylor
There’s something that often happens when you are out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you are actively looking out for girls you think you had like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, & many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you are in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular & want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles & talks to you nicely & politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures & comments much, if at all. It is like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful & flirty.
This does not happen because you are not her type or just because occasionally these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in does not appear to be interested in you & it is got a lot to do with psychology & social standing. You see, when you show you are interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego & feeling of self-worth. She knows you have chosen & are most interested in her & likes this feeling of elevated importance. However – she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty & obviously attracted to YOU, she will lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.
However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head & reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her & ONTO one or more of her friends. Right. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention & affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you are really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting & being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she can not have – and, of course, you will be very happyto have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group & the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged & thus make her feel an instant & undeniable desire to get your attention & “win” you back.
1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However – when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away & towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you are with any) & give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you are really interested in & immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.
2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing & joking.
3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.
Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you are interested in’s ego & therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others & you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have & never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!
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Attracting & Seducing Women: How to Use ‘Option Limitation’ to Maximise Your SuccessGetting girls to feel an attraction for you – that is not simply based closely on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you have got parked outside – can be really tricky.
After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl’s searching for without asking?
If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions – she wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she’s after & can give it to her.
So how do you do it?
How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance & presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?
The answer lies in psychology. It is at the heart of all persuasive social situations, & absolutely central to the success of any guy’s attempts at attracting & seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles & tactics, any guy can play & WIN at the game of seduction. By example, let us look at one such psychological technique, that used correctly boosts any guy’s chance of getting a girl’s number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%, each & every time he uses it… It is called option limitation & works on the following principle of human nature:
When someone’s presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it & go their own way. However – when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected & they make their choice from the variety of options they have been presented with.
You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions or phrases while talking to her.
For example, most men think saying: “Can I’ve your number?” is an okay way to finish a conversation that is gone well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: “It’s been nice to meet you… Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat & a drink tomorrow?” What you are doing is presenting the girl with a choice between good & better – whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she’s likely to create her own alternative, which means there’s a chance she will not say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously recognises that she’s been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected & she chooses one of them.
So, always use option limitation to give the impression there’s a variety of options available to the girl – even though each one is fine as far as you are concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always attempt to separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When people hear “or” they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, & therefore do just that…
Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves – not through luck or good fortune.
Tiffany Taylor is the female author of GuyGetsGirl, a special guide for men that reveals all the dirty tricks women play on guys each & every day. And, most importantly, how men can turn the tables on women by using special psychological techniques to attract & seduce them, anywhere, anytime…effortlessly.
Making A Great First Impression On Women
By Tiffany Taylor
ALWAYS look your best. I know this sounds REALLY obvious but you had be surprised by how many men do not understand the importance of this simple tip. You never know when the girl of your dreams will turn up, or where. And it is become a bit of a cliché because it is true — first impressions really do count.
Here are some figures to consider from my studies.
If you make a GOOD first impression on a woman, you have a 90% chance of EVER getting with her at that point (10% of women for whatever reason will be unreachable for most men at ANY point – she might like women herself etc).
If you make a BAD first impression your chances with her reduce drastically to just 20%. This means that to make her attracted to you AFTER the first 3 minutes of meeting her will be incredibly hard if her first impressions of you were bad.
It’s the difference between climbing a mountain & using a helicopter to fly up one. Good first impressions means you are on your way to the top in the helicopter, bad 
first impressions means you have a hard climb to success – no helicopters for you.
Honestly, I can not stress this enough — always attempt to look your best.
Tiff’s 5 S’s of first impressions.
Shave. Shower. Stylish. Smell. Shoes.
Remember these 5 S’s & always take care of them before you go out.
Why are shoes my number 5 S?
Your shoes are the FIRST thing a woman really notices about your clothing & hence your appearance. Make sure your shoes are clean & fashionable.
What you wear is very important. I could attempt to recommend a certain look but as with all things fashionable by the time you read this it may have changed.
Get the very latest GQ magazine or other fashionable men’s magazine’s & imitate the styles you see there — most women do not really care what labels you’re wearing as long as you look good so you do not have to spend the Earth on clothing.
Many guys I help dress better usually comment on how strange they feel wearing clothes they’re uncomfortable in, but nine times out of 10 they start to feel natural & even confident wearing their new wardrobe within days.
Make sure you smell good. Again this is very important. Remember how you feel when a woman walks by you & she smells soooo good – you feel an instant attraction even though you do not know her – well, that is how women feel too.
Wear a good-quality cologne, but do not spray too much.
One squirt on both sides of the neck, & one squirt on both wrists — maximum. You do not want to smell too overpowering.
I recommend cool 
water by Davidoff or John Paul Gautier for Men (often called JPG love juice because women love it) if they do not sell it where you’re attempt to order some from abroad, this stuff is GREAT!
And here’s a GREAT little SECRET that I’ve found will often help you actually pickup about 24% of women without SAYING a word to them! Not a single word! And NO rejection either. You will not find this anywhere else either. What you really need to do is…
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