Male & female courtship signals have been studied, & the basic conclusions are that these signals are completely unconscious. There is more. The more you consciously understand the signals, the better & more successful you’ll be when courting the object of your desire, whether it’s the man or woman of your dreams.

To master the art of successful flirting, you have to feel good about yourself first. Be confident. Be yourself, or else you’ll look deceitful or desperate. Flirting can be utilized in just about anything, not just in attracting the opposite sex, but also in attaining just about anything you want in your life. This can be described as good flirting. Good flirting should be done with a precise understanding of what you really want, coupled with positive sensations.

Here are their tips on how you can put good flirting to your advantage:

1. Do not worry about whether you’re making a good impression or not. Instead, analyze how you can make the other person feel good. By doing this, you’ll get the feedback you’re expecting. Soon you’ll make the connection.

2. Flirting can assist you make friends or impress a client if you make yourself approachable. Put a smile on your face, as it gives you an aura of being friendly.

3. Remember that you can not attract people just by sitting or standing like a statue. There will be instances when you’ll encounter a person who gets a little bit too close for comfort feel, or some one who makes you feel you’re already invading privacy. No matter what you do, you would get a so-called “vacuum” reaction. Tough one, huh? You can avoid this by using gentle moves & by calibrating the person’s reactions to you… Be aware of these signals: mouths get larger, the lips swell, eyes widen, pupils dilate, skin flushes & changes color, muscles around the mouth move, among others.

4. Be persistent. Flirting works best when you’re patient. By being such, you’ll have room for improvement if at first you are not getting the end results you want. If you fail the first time, do it again the second time, third time, just keep trying. Do you follow? Try different approaches until you realize what will really work best for you… If you were rejected, do not give up. This goes with the sayings, “To err is human” & “Nobody’s perfect.”

5. This is probably for me the most interesting & somehow funniest tip I got: “Practice in the mirror, only then can you make it perfect!” This is especially true in meeting friends & prospects, because flirting may involve un-wanted actions & attention which can put you in the bad :cry: light. You may be spontaneous in your actions, but you can not guard yourself if you’re already overdoing it, & I supposed you do not want to be in that situation. Try practicing with your close friends & ask for feedback.

6. Make the first move! Opportunities knock only once, so if you want something or even someone, go for it, now! Let go of your inhibitions. But remember to apply positive or good flirting. Who knows if the person you meet at that moment is your gateway towards the fulfillment of your dreams.

Let Your Body Language Do The Flirting

Do you know why some people seem to have an easier time attracting the opposite sex? Here’s what you can to do in order to catch the eye of your Honey Bunch.

1. Smile sincerely & frequently. In his article “The Six Don Juan Commandments of Body Language,” Allen Thompson wrote that smiling is “The simplest, most obvious, & most powerful of the body language commandments.” He also mentions that “Smiling conveys, both instantly & clearly, many wonderful things about yourself. Smiling demonstrates confidence, friendliness, a positive attitude, a good mood, & it gives the impression that you are some one who is, most likely, fun to be with. It is also very hard to ignore.”

2. Have a sense of humor. Learn to laugh at petty matters. People love to be with those who can turn any situation into a funny :lol: setting.

3. Maintain eye contact. Your eyes are probably the most expressive parts of your body. When you look at your dear one constantly, you’re expressing your sincere intentions. Eye contact also establishes a bond between two persons. There is more. They would naturally feel more comfortable in each other’s company.

4. Nod your head. By nodding, you signify your approval & you encourage the other party to continue talking. You give reassurance that your loved one is doing ok.

5. Be open, physically. Do not cross your arms across the chest or hold obstructive objects (such as a food) between the two of you… Put your hands on your sides (and if possible put your palms up) to convey openness.

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