Relationships, Romance and Dating
How to stop husband from flirting at work?
I found out not too long ago that a female worker has been flirting with all the men at my husband’s workplace including him. She called him several times and both of them claims that they are only friends. I heard that all they talked about is sex. I think she’s a bitch and a hole. How do I stop this flirting issue? I don’t want my husband to fall for this female and let it to become an issue in our marriage.
Am I just jealous or is this a serious issue that can break my marriage?
What should I do?
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about 1 year ago
well it is serious since she is calling him, and it can break your marriage ONLY if your husband doesn’t knock it off; he should have enough respect for himself, the vows he took and for you to quit the inappropriate behavior….good luck to you hon!
about 1 year ago
Its not the women whos the problem..its your husband. He isnt so innocent…and if he knows this is hurting you he will stop all contact with her. If not…then he will cheat and thats his fault..not hers
about 1 year ago
Your husband is headed down a dead end street with this girl. Sometimes you need to make waves and this is one time you should make some big ones. It has to stop or the next thing will be cheating. Tell him its a reflection on your marriage and that other people will know how silly he is and that he can’t control his emotions. My ex did this all the time and it made me feel like I was on the outside looking in. I didn’t feel connected to him at all. Eventually it lead to divorce.
about 1 year ago
MEET HUBBY AT WORK FOR LUNCH
DRESS UP
WIGGLE WHILE YOU WALK
LET THE BOYS CHECK YOU OUT AT THE OFFICE
about 1 year ago
You can’t stop him from flirting because he is a grown man. It has to be his decision to not flirt or converse with this woman outside of work.
about 1 year ago
you’re not being jealous. Lay down the law and tell him like is.
You can’t trust them these days.
about 1 year ago
Is this the first time he has had this behavior? Maybe he is having a midlife crisis. You are not jealous you are rightfully pissed off that your husband is acting like a wiener. I guess you are going to have to tell him that his behavior is an insult to you and if he doesn’t knock off the crap with her he needs to sign the document that you have prepared dividing your assets and quoting the alimony and child support he will be paying.
about 1 year ago
IT CAN BREAK UR MARRIAGE BUT ONLY IF UR HUSBAND LETS IT.. HE SHOULD TELL HER THAT SHE SHOULD BACK OFF BECAUSE HE IS MARRIED AND SHE SHOULD RESPECT HIS WISHES.. SO ITS ALL UP TO UR HUSBANDS ACTIONS.
about 1 year ago
Plz read the book, “He’s Just Not That Into You.” Best Wishes!!!
about 1 year ago
Both. Men are like children the more you tell them not to do something the more they want to do it. The only way this will ruin your marriage is if you continue to act insecure. Let your husband know you trust him.
about 1 year ago
It will break your marriage ONLY if your husband lets it.
Tramps have radar for men unhappy in marriage. I am sure your wonderful husband talks trash on you all day.
about 1 year ago
She has no business talking to your husband, and about sex no less! I’d put a stop to that quick. He doesnt need to talk to her for any reason. My rule of thumb is if me or my husband can not carry on a relationship with another person in front of one another, then it doesnt need to be carried at all. I am weary of other women, It is sad that not all woman respect marriage. OMG!!! I could never freely talk about sex like that to a married man! Be glad your not me, cause I would have to say something to her. Your husband should take your side no matter what. Good luck.
about 1 year ago
I would tell him he needs to change his number. There is no reason why another female needs to be calling. How would he like it if a male calling you and taking to you about sex. Sorry but talking about sex is cheating and inappropriate. Why would he even want to talking to someone else about sex…expecially someone you work with and a female…that is something between you and him only. You need to sit down and have a serious confersation with him about this and if he don’t want to change his number tell him then lets switch phone and every time she calls that you do not want her to call anymore…there is no reason for her to call. He needs to respect how you feel. I would be careful because this can most definately lead to cheating.
about 1 year ago
I have found that you cannot make anyone do anything that they want to do. It’s up to him to draw boundaries with this woman and any other.
This is very disrespectful towards you. I’d try asking him to discontinue talking to her on the phone for that reason. I mean, if you don’t want to start a fire, why buy a box of matches? He should cool it at work, too.
This is not so much about being jealous as it as about inappropriate behavior on his part. Is he married or not? Committed or not? He needs to behave as if he is committed to you – and he’s not. Talking about sex at work is way over the line and inviting trouble.
You must draw some boundaries of your own and stand by them. I’d tell him enough is enough and if you hear of one more instance you will take drastic measures. And then do it.
Good luck.
about 1 year ago
SHOW UP AT AT HIS WORK.
TAKE HIM OUT TO LUNCH
ARRIVE ALL DOLLED UP
LET EVERYONE THERE SEE WHAT HE HAS AT HOME
about 1 year ago
You just need to talk to him and express your feelings. No matter what you two decide, he can’t control what other women do and how they behave. He can only control what he does. As far as it affecting your marriage, it won’t affect it so long as your husband doesn’t allow it to. If it does, then your marriage was never strong to begin with then, and at least you’ll know so you can find a real man.
about 1 year ago
Tell him straight up that you trust him, but, this hurts. It does not matter the reason. That should resonate with him. No guy wants his wife to be hurting.
If that does not work I suggest one of those electronic things to keep dogs in the yard. If he goes near her he gets a shock.
about 1 year ago
go to work with him
about 1 year ago
put out more