Flirting via e-mail is a great way to pick up women. However – if done wrong you’ll look like a fool. In this article I’ll discuss two techniques you can use to confidently attract women by flirting via e-mail. Specifically these topics will be about confidence & humor. At the end of this article you should be equipped with enough tools to ramp up your flirting via e-mail tremendously.

Here’s the first thing you should know — Women like to be around men who make them feel good about themselves. So how do women feel good about themselves? Well, they must feel comfortable & safe before they feel good. That is why confidence is an attractive quality in a man.

Another way women feel pleasure is by laughing & smiling. That’s the humor side of it.

When flirting via e-mail you must be both confident & humorous. You want a balance of both. If you are too confident she will think you are arrogant — or worse, insecure. If you are too funny :lol: she will think you are a clown or goofball.

Want an example? Say you have been flirting via e-mail with a female for a while. She likes you a lot — & in actual fact she jokes with you about being perfect. You respond back & say something like, “I’ve been called worse.” Or she could point out that if you are Mr. perfect, why are you single? In actual fact, she jokingly says you should have a harem.

Here’s how you could reply using confidence & humor: “can you help me out then? I need help with this harem idea :idea: that you gave me. Do you know how to arrange these things?”

This is just an example of how to be confident & humorous at the same time.

So how can you use this information to become better at flirting via e-mail? Try this exercise: get together with a friend & come up with five situations you currently have trouble with when flirting via e-mail with women. Next, come up with confident statements applicable to these situations. After you do this, go back & add humor to those confident statements. Now attempt these statements out the next time your flirting via e-mail.

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