Many teenagers feel they do not have any contact with their parents, especially if their parents are divorced. When their parents get divorced they usually find another companion, & things start being rough for the kids, who feel they lost their family, the protection they had, the stability of their lives & the importance they had for their parents.

A very tragic situation begins when the divorced parents get married with divorced people that have kids from their first wedding & a real mess of brothers & sisters that do not feel anything for each other start being part of the teens’ life, besides the mother-in-law & the father-in-law they acquire.

Since divorces as soon as their kids grow up are very common in our days, teenagers with divorced parents are very common everywhere & these numbers tend to increase because in modern times it is very easy for anyone to get back the freedom they had before marriage (while in the past a divorce was a big adventure against society, which could not accept it) & most people do not select the right person when they get married. When they realize they made a big mistake by getting married to this wrong person, they have to wait the kids grow up a little bit at least, so that the children will be easily able to cope with their divorce.

And as soon as they feel their kids do not need as much protection & care as they used to before, they do not think twice?their freedom is the most significant thing in the world! They need to have it back, no matter what!

With the divorce, teens have to accept seeing their mother dating another man & their father dating a girlfriend. A horrible competition between the kids & lovers begins. If the teens show their disgust, their parents do not stop dating their companion; rather, they fight with their children, thinking that they’re not trying to understand how they feel. So, instead of being supportive towards their kids, the parents ask for their kid’s support instead, in a matter that they can not really help them with, because they’re the ones that need help in this situation.

A lot of anger, nervousness, & misunderstandings ruin the teens’ life at the time when they’re trying to experiment with their own freedom, like birds who finally grew up enough to fly by themselves.

Yet, they have no intention to do anything about the way they feel?

If you’re one of them, I can assist you with my knowledge. My experience with teenagers is extensive, & I can tell you how you can get rid of your uneasiness.

By interpreting many people’s dreams, I’ve very clearly seen their world, daily problems, psychic problems, mistakes & fears. So, the first thing I’ve to tell you is that nobody studies many subjects in order to specifically learn how to be a parent, & most people do not even qualify for that rule, even though they have many kids & they may seem to be quite good’ parents.

My own parents were always fighting from the first days of my life, & they even made me take part in their discussions, asking me whom I would rather prefer to live with?I always felt that they were immature & I had to be very tolerant with them! I helped them get divorced when I was 14 years old because their lives together were a real disaster. They should never have married in their lives! And my existence was a very big irony that made them insist on living together, while one of them should have lived in the North & the other, in the South. There was no connection! Their personalities were totally different.

So, you had better accept that many times a marriage can really be a very big mistake. It’s a mistake that people make when they’re young & foolish, but one they have to continue bearing if they have kids & a sense of responsibility toward them. Many parents simply get divorced as soon as they understand they have made a mistake, even if their kids are only babies at the time. Sometimes, they do not have another choice?and we can not blame anyone. Usually how ever, we see that many parents stay married only because they love their kids who need a family. They make a sacrifice for them, but it can not continue forever.

We can not say they’re wrong because they decide to wait until their kids grow up, but we can not say that their position is right either, because this way their kids are like terrible executioners who oblige them to live in their family’s prison. The solution would be a big comprehension of the situation from both sides & a decision to solve the existent problems. If parents & teens were united, they would find good solutions for their problems & nobody would feel so hurt, but what usually happens is that the divorced parents are enemies who only condemn one another?

My advice to you is to simply forget about your parents & attempt to live your own life without making their mistakes. Do not provoke fights or attempt to compete with their girlfriends or boyfriends, do not condemn them & do not show them your revolt. In actual fact, do not feel any revolt because nobody is responsible for marring the wrong person in their lives when they’re too young & too ignorant. I wanted to avoid making this mistake very much, but I got married to the wrong person as well, even though I had my parent’s example to learn from. It is very hard to select the person with whom you plan to live forever when you’re only in the beginning of your life!

Accept your parents like you accept your own friends when they make mistakes. There is more. They are simply human beings, nothing more than mere human beings?

Try to understand how they feel & do not demand anything. Focus only on your own behavior & on what you want to achieve in your life. Take care of your future & learn a lot, without any complaint.

During my studies, I came across Carl Jung’s method of deciphering dreams, which helped me & urged me to continue his research into the unknown regions of our psychical sphere. I set my poetry aside & began to compile my findings. I sought to prove that Jung had discovered the proper method of interpretation of dreams. There is more. This exercise actually taught me many things, & I continued to pursue Jung’s research into the analysis of dreams. Learn more at http://www.booksirecommend.com/