She hurt you & she hurt you really bad, you never really saw the divorce coming & now that it’s final your next goal in life is getting revenge on her for breaking your heart.

When you’re not emotionally wrapped up in it, it is easy to tell some one who is wrapped up in it that trying to get revenge is not going to do you any good.

You already know that, but it is easier to use that energy on getting her back rather than letting her go.

As long as you attempt to get her back you do not have to let her go even if revenge is the only way you think or know that you can get her back.

After all it’s the memory of her that your revenge is based on.

You also already know that if you succeed in your revenge you still will get her back in other ways as well.

Perhaps, you getting her back will cause her to seek revenge on you & want to get you back.

Now, the two of you can forever be together getting each other back.

Of course, what started as a way to get her back will only end when you forget what it’s you wanted to get back.

Confused?

Of course you are, as the only thing that is here is energy waiting to be used.

Now, that I’ve your attention you can select to use that energy in a way that leads you to what you want which is what you had only with some one else.

You can direct you energy towards some one new & create bigger & better memories with the new women in your life, until you find the next Woman of your life. As that just might be the best revenge of all.

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