Relationships, Romance and Dating
What is the best way to confront my cheating husband when we have children in the house?
I am wanting to confront my husband about his cheating ways that I recently discovered but how do I do that with kids in the house? Should we go to a public place and discuss this or have someone to come and take the kids for a few hours while we talk? Because there is sure to be some screaming and yelling to take place! I don’t want my kids disposed to our conversation.
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about 1 year ago
get a sitter
about 1 year ago
Have the kids go to grandma’s…
about 1 year ago
because this is not going to be a friendly conversation, and because the potential for violence is high, i would strongly recommend you two to go to a public place to have this discussion. never in front of the kids, and never at home which tends to give one of you an advantage in the argument. always go to a neutral safe area where you know that you will leave in one piece.
about 1 year ago
have them go to the grandparents house for the wkend and confront your husband then work on fixing your marraige
about 1 year ago
send your kids to your relatives or sum1
about 1 year ago
Yeah I’d drop them off at a relatives.
Good for you for wanting to keep it between you and hubby and not involve the kids. That’s noble of you, and wise in the long run.
Sorry to hear about this. Life gets rough sometimes. (Hug) And good luck with the conversation.
about 1 year ago
If you have someone to care for them that is the best way. Get them out of the house, don’t confront him in public, that would make a ugly scene. If you don’t have someone to care for them, wait until they are dead asleep and try to keep the yelling down real low!
about 1 year ago
I’d suggest going to neutral territory, especially if you think yelling and screaming will be possible. You need to discuss this rationally, as adults, and decide how to move forward.
about 1 year ago
first of all just stop taking to your husband….not necessarily in front of kids but whenever u can…by this he will feel neglected and may try to be bit polite or get close to you and then tell him that you need to tak to him but not infront of kids. and you can do this when when ur kids are gone to school..take a leave from work and discuss it. after all job is not as important as a relation. then have a tak with him.
till then when u r not having this discussion dun tak to him try and make him feel that he has hurted you. make him feel that you are the only person for him in a normal way. try if this helps and do tell me what happened on ma id i.e
amardeep_27august@yahoo.com
about 1 year ago
remembr that ur kids r half from ur husband. if u hurt him, u hurt them. he didnt think of that when he was screwing around on u tho did he?
get ur kids out of the house b4 u confront this jerk. tell ur friends when ur going 2 do it. make sure 1 of them is willing 2 call u after or even during it. have a code word-phrase so if u say it, they know 2 call 911.
also go get urself an hiv & other diseases test now-today! if he cheated on u he prolly didnt wear a condom. men r stupid sometimes.
about 1 year ago
get the kids out of the house.
about 1 year ago
Is there need of screaming and yelling? If you want to save your children trouble, do the same to you. React differently – write to him.
about 1 year ago
Maybe the mistress could watch them for a few hours????? Kind of her problem too?????
about 1 year ago
You need to have someone come and get the kids…ideally, you need to arrange it beforehand, so that when he arrives home it’s to an empty house – just you and him.
It’s perfectly fine to be angry…but try to keep a level head and remain as calm as possible. You want to keep your head and your wits about you so that you can present your case – and your feelings – as clearly as possible to him.
Also, honestly listen to what he has to say. Every story has two sides (yes, even this one)…and that means he may have some unpleasant truths about you as well that you may need to confront. Remember that this is not an attack: it’s a very serious issue that you both must work to resolve. In the end, it’s going to be his willingness to do exactly that – work with you at resolving the problem – that will help you determine your next move.
I wish you both the very best of luck.