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What is the best way to serve divorce papers?

Corry — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 11:48:13 +0000

Question by phishinmom: What is the best way to serve divorce papers?
My cousin filled for divorce and is having problems serving her ex with divorce papers. She is doing it herself to save on money (single mom of 3) . He will not accept the papers. Does anyone know of a good way to serve him the papers without using a court appointed person to do it? He cant hide forever and she only has 4 days to gett hem to him. Thanks.

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Answer by Tryna-Hyde
tell her to put the envelope in a bigger, brown envelope with no return address on it and mail it to him certified mail. he’ll have to sign for it to even accept the package. if he doesn’t sign, at least she’ll have proof of her attempt.

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What happens if 2 people file for divorce in differnt states?

Corry — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 12:48:38 +0000

Question by Matthew: What happens if 2 people file for divorce in differnt states?
My wife moved away from me about 7 months ago and I don’t know here address but I do know she lives in a different state. I want to file for divorce but she says shes going to do it too. I would let her but I want to control the divorce in my state cause I cant travel right now dues to work. What happens if we both file? Thanks in advance.

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Answer by mcstir
Sounds like a race. I believe whoever files first has the valid divorce petition. The other one would just be discontinued.

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How do you serve divorce papers when the one being served is in hiding?

Corry — Sat, 31 Dec 2011 18:48:17 +0000

Question by : How do you serve divorce papers when the one being served is in hiding?
My son has a 4 year old son and now a new baby (not sure if it is his). He hasn’t seen his son for over a month because his wife went into hiding. He is trying to serve her divorce papers and to establish temporary visitation. There is a status conference in 3 days, however, she has yet to be served due to not knowing her whereabouts. What can he do?

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Answer by Lasheequa
Usually lawyers have pi’s to locate them

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Four Vital Questions Before Pursuing Divorce

Corry — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 23:48:21 +0000

Article by Danica Reynes

Some pertinent questions you should ask before you consider getting a divorce are the following: what is your reason for considering divorce, are there any covert reasons behind your decision, are you aware of the consequences involved, and will you be able to act maturely after the divorce.

Divorce can be a stressful and difficult decision to make. If not thought through properly, it could cause significant damage to both the couple and their children. If divorce is a consideration, sit down with a Divorce Attorney Southfield today. Asking the following questions will help you determine whether divorce is a wise option:

Mull over your reasons for obtaining a divorce and ask yourself?

The first and most basic question that you and your spouse should ask is why you are considering divorce. If you don’t properly identify your reasons for considering it, instead of a solution, divorce itself could become another problem. If a fight was involved, let things cool off before breaching the subject again. Discussing the reasons will allow you and your mate enough time to relax and have clear thoughts. Remember, when overwhelmed by negative emotions or out of impulse, you should not be deciding on divorce.

Are there any covert reasons behind your decision?

Before talking to your spouse about a divorce, think long and hard. Ask yourself a tough question. Do I have my own agenda for doing this? Try resolving your issues before you decide to leave each other. One example of this is mentioning divorce as a way of voicing frustrations about your marriage, or just to manipulate or threaten your partner. If this is the case, then divorce might not be the solution you are looking for. Marriage counseling or therapy might be a good first step.

Are the consequences clear to you?

There are a number of things to take into account when thinking about ending your marriage. You and your spouse’s goals as a couple and as individuals can be affected, should be kept in mind. It is a stressful situation and affects your emotions and finance. Children and other family members gets affected by divorce. Have a clear understanding of the possible negative effects of your decision and whether you are capable or at least willing to face these consequences. Ask yourself if you have the ability to help your children cope, or if you have a support system that is readily available to help you through the painful divorce process. Denying or repressing the negative aspects of the divorce will only make things harder for you and later on other people involved with you in this divorce.

Will you be able to act maturely after the divorce?

Don’t consider divorce as just a one time legal occurrence to break up a relationship because the experience lingers on past the legal matters. Ask yourself if you are willing to take responsibility for the decision you made and whether you are willing to let go of any resentments you have towards your spouse. Your success in moving forward and starting a new life after your divorce will depend on your mindset.

Getting a divorce is a major move, and a couple should thoroughly think about it before moving ahead. Its negative effects can become long-term if the decision is not thought through properly.

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How long after Oklahoma Divorce can I get married in Arkansas?

Corry — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 04:49:55 +0000

Question by Opal T: How long after Oklahoma Divorce can I get married in Arkansas?
My divorce in Oklahoma is about to be finalized (signed by the judge). I am wondering when can I go to Arkansas and get married? I think I can within 2 weeks, just wanting to make sure. Also, what all do I need to take for an arkansas marriage license?

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Answer by Liz
in if your divorcing in Oklahoma, you must wait three months no matter where you move to.

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How much does a divorce in California costs?

Corry — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 14:49:39 +0000

Question by : How much does a divorce in California costs?
Husband and I are talking about the big D, and I was wondering if we can even afford one!! We’ve been married five years, and have a 3 and almost 2 year old together. How much would it cost to help finalize a divorce with custody agreement and everything?

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Answer by our2joy
mot sure but they do have legal aides for low or not cost to you.

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How to obtain a divorce from a California marriage but living in NC?

Corry — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 05:52:01 +0000

Question by : How to obtain a divorce from a California marriage but living in NC?
My fiance and I are wanting to get married. He was married in California but lives in North Carolina now. He has been living here for over two and a half years. The divorce is mutual, it will not be contested. Anyone have any help on how to go about this? Thanks in advance!

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Answer by Murzy
you file for divorce in the county you live in

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How long after a divorce does it take most people to remarry?

Corry — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 07:48:41 +0000

Question by Sheniquah Loves Facebook: How long after a divorce does it take most people to remarry?
What range of years is average?

Also, if most people don’t remarry after a certain amount of years they probaly won’t, how many years post-divorce do you think that is that they just end up staying single?

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Answer by Jerry
Your worries are a waste or your own time and only time will tell you when is right. Everybodys different.

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What is the best way to get an easy divorce uncontested in Texas?

Corry — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 12:48:51 +0000

Question by beccahippie: What is the best way to get an easy divorce uncontested in Texas?
My soon to be ex and I have been separated for about 4 yrs. We want to get a simple divorce, no kids nor property, etc. Just my last name back and us legally divorced. I see the $ 50-$ 100 divorces but don’t know which one to trust. Any and all help is appreciated.

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Answer by Steph
I used this site for my divorce. They will keep fixing your papers until it is absolutely perfect and they have a 101% guarantee. It costs $ 237 though.

http://www.document-do-it-yourself-service.com/state_prices/texas_divorce_prices.html

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Is Divorce free how how can i go about getting a divorce and lawyer?

Corry — Sat, 26 Nov 2011 03:48:14 +0000

Question by Chica: Is Divorce free how how can i go about getting a divorce and lawyer?
I am planning on getting a divorce. but i don’t have the money for it. Is there any lawyers out there that can help me with or anyone know of something i can do? I need to get out of this marriage! ASAP

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Answer by Get it? Got it? Good!
If you are not having a stormy divorce, you can just file the papers yourself, or have someone prepare them for you.

Otherwise, you may need an attorney.

They are not free.

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