Relationships, Romance and Dating
Why do so many couples shortly after being married end up in Adulterous Affairs?
What happened to the understanding of Vows and the basic knowing of ‘sanctification’ when two become one? What is the purpose of Marriage if no one can remain loyal to their partners? Why bother getting married just for the sake and more than likely all the incorrect motives to do so?
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about 1 year ago
Because we chose to have affairs???
about 1 year ago
Because it’s not adultery until you are married and cheat. Before that, it’s just cheating.
about 1 year ago
I would love to see the actual statistics for what you are stating. What time frame is ‘shortly after’? What percentage of couples are we talking about? When you say ‘no one can remain loyal to their partners’ – to whom are you referring? My husband and I have been loyal to each other for all the time we have been together. Did you make sure to take us out of your sweeping statements? If you are talking from experience, your question should deal with the issues you are having and allow the board to answer your specific question.
about 1 year ago
because people are stupid.What ever happen to the good old days were when times gotten really hard, the wife or husband stuck by your side the whole time.
about 1 year ago
People are just not mature enough nor have the heart anymore to stay loyal, They no longer give a damn about hurting someone or for their own soul. there is someone out there who will be loyal but he/she will only come around when you are ready and when you least expect it. Do’nt give up but don’t drop your gaurds or standards even if others say they are too high. They are never too high if they make you happy!
about 1 year ago
I’m with Jordan, what statistics are you citing?
Affairs are as old as marriages.
Why bother getting married? Security, love, friendship, children, trust. Per your question, that last one does come with some considerable risk. I don’t wish adultery on anyone.
about 1 year ago
Basic maturity issue.
about 1 year ago
Because Marriage sucks and trying to live with another person for so long can just be nagging. Men are ingrained with the idea of spreading there seed…….so off to the world do just do that.
about 1 year ago
well if you hang around here you would believe that. that being said there is more of it basically because it is more openly discussed. In general I think its the way the last generations have been raised and all traditional institutions are being questioned, ignored.and in some cases justifiably so.
Marriage has a socio political base and has nothing to do with love or sex, but just to bring organization or civilization to the process of raising off spring. it went political after that. Just like Global warming goes from an issue to be dealt with to be big business where money becomes the driver and not global warming (which may or may not exist). Adding love and sex as a sole purpose to marriage is rather recent in the overal scale of things, economic benefits are ment to boost its popularity. why do you get a benefit if you are married. add to that the challenge to marriage institution by the gay community which has resulted in the revocation of the common law marriage laws in most states, this is political,social legislation affecting the marriage institution. Adultry has been around forever to wit that prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. Massive religious impact on the marriage institution like the Church of England break away had nothing to do with the sanctity of marriage only politics of marriage (hereditary successor to the throne). no love or sex here.
however there are millions of books on this stuff. The marriage institution needs to questioned, it has purpose in its original intent and adultry within marriage has nothing or little to do with it. Adultry is a personal choice. inside or outside the marriage.
about 1 year ago
A inner desire to be one takes 2 not just 1,and that’s a rare find .A diamond deep in a mountain that you keep trying for .Ya mine from the side cause its too hard to mine from a summit,so ya keep trying and trying never realizing you already,found it sitting there right in the stone . You don’t have to keep trying when you are already there. Sometimes ya just don’t see it but its plain as day.
about 1 year ago
the minute a problem comes up, they get on here for advice, and its downhill from there
about 1 year ago
They lack boundaries. It’s all about selfish ego gratification. Our society promotes the concept that you have the right to be “happy” regardless of the damage it does to others.
I agree, if you don’t want to adhere to the promises you make to another, then remain single. Or, find a partner who doesn’t expect faithfulness either.