Relationships, Romance and Dating
what are peoples views on affairs? Has your partner ever had an affair?
im curious as different religions have different beliefs on adultery.However i am also interested in the morality of it. Is it possible to forgive someone who has cheated on you and broke the marital views? interested to know if you have ever considered having an affair and why?
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about 1 year ago
I dont think I could ever get over being cheated on. I would think about it every time he touched me, eeeeerrrrrr.
about 1 year ago
Affairs are for selfish, immature people who don’t care about anyone but themself.
Mature love has no need for outside “action”, and the marital trust once broken will NEVER be regained.
An affair would end my marriage…and it wouldn’t be ME that has one.
Fortunately, my (2nd) hubby feels the same. We are too old for games and ego-stroking…which is what cheating amounts to.
My FIRST husband cheated and left me for her after 24 yrs married. So people should stop being so SMUG about how it could never happen to them!
about 1 year ago
my view is “do you” if it feels good and he is not making me feel good there is someone in the world who will!!!
yes I am selfish
about 1 year ago
I see cheating as a deal breaker for any relationship – married, defacto, exclusively dating. Its nothing to do with marital vows for me its about respect and love.
I have had times where I have not so much considered an affair but yearned for something different. I dealt with it by having some difficult conversations with my hubby and working through it. Your partner can’t change something if they dont know theres a problem. I woukd rather be dumped out of the blue than cheated on.
about 1 year ago
Here in America, we’re all about temptation. Sex is everywhere. Being a person in a stable, honest relationship these days is quite a challenge. I’m in a relationship right now.. A year and a half so far. I know I’ve been tempted and almost pressured into sticky situations. I’m sure he has as well. When you cheat and get caught, you always end up thinking it wasn’t that bad “It was just a kiss” But that little kiss is devastation if you’re the other person. We forgive people for cheating everyday, but there’s still that missing piece of trust you once had for them, and you can never get it back.
about 1 year ago
I forgive my wife. She likes a drink or two… and that usually makes her horny as hell and then she is anybody’s girl. I used to get upset about it, but I realised how horny it made me feel. 22 years on and I can’t talk.. I’m probably worse since I dont drink and I’m still a filthy cheating slut. It’s about the sex. I enjoy uninhibited group sex. You can only have one wife… but you can have sex with you know.. half a dozen people at a time.
about 1 year ago
Currently my partner is beautiful as I am so we both understand beautiful people have more than one sex partner. So I tell her about mine and she does me.