Every now & then a man finds out his woman is cheating on him right when she decides to leave him for the other man.

After some time apart she comes back into his life to put “closure” on their relationship.

The only problem is instead of closure you suddenly find yourself as the other man with the woman who just cheated on you.

In many ways this might seem as if its sweet revenge on your part.

You get to still have sex with your ex & you believe that at a certain point her new man who she was cheating on you with will feel the same pain that you felt.

Yet, your willingness to take her back (even if only sexually) means that the three of you have now entered into a cycle of pain & frustration that is not going to stop until one of you decides to simply move on..

Given the history of the other two people involved that person must be you.

She is not going to do it & once he discovers that the two of you’re hooking up again it only puts him back where he started.

You are hurting right now & attempting to cause him to hurt just like you only will lead to more pain & frustration for yourself.

End it with her right now & realize that the only way to feel good again is to move on & create new memories so that this situation becomes nothing more than a distant memory.

Otherwise you might not actually be easily able to find the type of “pay back” that you’re really looking for.

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