Archive for February, 2008

The True Secret To Having A Marriage That Will Not End In Divorce

A marriage or any other relationship whether it be a friendship or intimate relationship between two people can only endure if it has love flowing through it… Today’s marriages are failing at record levels in the western world, recent statistics show that in the United States alone that almost ½ of marriages there end in divorce. Marriages can not endure without love & it seems that the world is lacking a lot of love today. Jesus Christ predicted that in the last days ‘the love of many would wax cold’ (Matthew 24:12). It certainly seems like the love of many More >

The Seven Worst Things to Say to Your Kids During a Divorce

When you said the words, “I do,” on your wedding day, the idea of divorce probably never entered your mind. Nor was it even a fleeting thought when you witnessed the birth of your first child. Chances are it never occurred to you at those times that one day you would be a statistic in the over fifty percent of marriages that end in divorce.

And yet here you are, considering divorce, separated, or already divorced. Today you find yourself dealing with issues of dating, visitation schedules, & feelings of animosity toward your spouse. You know that divorce isn’t the best More >

Frustrated With Online Dating? Nobody Checkin’ You Out?

If you want to meet some one online, there’s one thing that you will definitely want to do – post a good, recent, smiling photo of yourself. If you can post more than one, even better!

Why upload your photo? A Picture Is Worth 1000 Emails. Statistics have consistently shown that profiles with photos get a minimum of 10 times more looks. Many (actually most) people only search for profiles with photos. (Admit it… You do it too.) That means that if you do not have a photo, people are not going to look at your profile. You might as well More >

Divorce May Be the Wrong Choice

If you’re thinking of divorcing your mate, I pray my thoughts will often help you reconsider your decision. I believe that most troubled marriages do not have to end in divorce.

I have been married for almost 48 years. Many times, though the years, I thought of divorcing my husband. I’m so thankful I select to stick to my marriage & to make things work.

Why am I thankful I stayed married to my husband & kept my family together?

1. My husband & I are happy today. I am so glad we did not quite the times we were unhappy. We have More >

5 Ways To Be Romantic This Valentine’s Day

Did you know that most people do not know how to give a good romantic gift for Valentines Day when people expect it more than ever. But , with a little creativity, Valentines shopping is easy to do.

“Every year people are faced with the same dilemma, Valentines Day is supposed to be fun & romantic, but more often than not it just turns out being a total disaster.”

A simple way to improve your gift giving effectiveness is to select a few all time favorites as well as a few that are extra spicy!To help out this Valentines day, allow me More >

Nine Good Things About Losing the Love of Your Life

Separation can be hard & in times like this, I know I might have wanted some one saying nice things & giving me positive instructions. I’ve to say most of my articles are written from the perspective of the person being left & might not suit the person leaving. But read on even if you’re the person leaving, I would not waste an hour without writing something worthwhile. This might be a good email to send a friend going through this hard time. Now let us get to the nine good things.

The first: At least you had one love.

If you More >

Top 5 Reasons Why Finding Your SoulMate Online Can Be One of the SMARTEST Things You Can Do

In 1997 I stumbled across an on line personals website & my curiosity got the best of me. At the time, I was a successful single parent that really was not searching for a relationship. However – there was something intriguing about this website, it had people from all over looking for?someone to spend time with, some one to love, some one to be friends with, some one wanting to find their SoulMate. At the age of 30, I was already past the bar scene & had no luck meeting anyone in my day to day routine. Not to mention More >

Divorce & Debt

As common sense & statistics tell us, the leading cause of marital discord is money… Therefore, it’s not surprising that many times divorce inventories have more red numbers than black ones.

Media sources often portray Hollywood stars of ‘power couples’ divorcing. Included with the typical hype may be which party will get the mansion, vacation home, or car collection, but rarely is there any coverage about how the parties will divide debt.

The hard truth is that debt, just like assets, are included in the community estate. No matter what your own moral compass may register ® regarding your & your spouse’s More >

Great Services A Bride Can Receive From A Day Spa

Going to a day spa can make the bride look her best as well as alleviate the stress associated with wedding planning. These facilities offer facials, body treatments, massage, body contouring, hair removal, & hand & food treatments. They offer cosmetic application & instruction & have packages tailored just for brides.

Day spas offer a choice of European or specialized facials. European facials are combination of skin analysis, cleansing, exfoliation, steam, & massage on face & chest area. Some specialized facials include: deep pore cleansing facial, alpha hydroxy treatment, & oxygen facials. During an oxygen facial, a pure oxygen mist is More >

Why Not Try Tahiti – A Truly Unique Honeymoon Destination Experience

Getting married is the most awaited & romantic event in every person’s life; & to some, it is a scary thing because you are going to be bonded with another individual for life. Both of you made a vow to share your love, happiness, & sadness together. Most couples are dreaming of a honeymoon spent in a beautiful place, but not all are lucky enough to fulfill such dream. One reason is due to budgetary constraints. But for most couples who can afford a romantic & completely unique honeymoon some place else, they must be very careful in choosing their More >