Relationships, Romance and Dating
The French Kiss – Back to Basics ? Let Loose the Animal Instinct
What better way to express your true feelings than the amorous French Kiss. Right. While some people abhor the idea
of tongue kissing, I can not think of another means which depict healthy eroticism. And what’s love without a bit of erotica? A kiss tells many stories.
Though I’m sure the French had nothing to do with its invention & its as basic as human nature itself, a kiss can enhance communication between two lovers, which a thousand words cant do. A kiss can be your first initiation to the ultimate with your lover & its sensual nature can be the precursor of many wonderful activities which follow.
One of the most significant ingredients of foreplay, there is a definite art of French kissing. A very good kisser most definitely makes an equally good sexual partner in bed also. A very good French Kiss not just communicates the state of mental & physical arousal, but gives an assured signal of the level of competence in bed as well. Many experienced women, do not even allow an awkward or a shy kisser to proceed to the bedroom.
So what if your partner is a bad
& messy kisser, there’re a few other qualities which you admire & turns you one. Won’t give up, right? No sweat. If it does hurt his/her ego too much, you could teach him/her gradually the find art of kissing. And practice makes the most hard job perfect.
To start with, ensure that both of you’re comfortable & at ease with the situation & with each other. Kiss him first, ask him to repeat. Give a comfortable bite on his bottom lip & suck it… Lick his mouth with your tongue.
Tease him by moving just the tip of your tongue past his lips, then as she/he loosens up push your tongue deeper into your lover’s mouth. Suck up the tongue into your mouth. Pull away & tease him again & kiss his neck working your way to his mouth. Gently tug his hand to your mouth & display your capability once more.
Remember to simultaneously do some other activities of foreplay, like caressing his face, stroking his hair with your fingers, biting his earlobe, etc. This naturally arouses him further & makes him feel loved & special. As your lover feels relaxed & aroused, he automatically follows his natural body instincts better.
If he still doesn’t proceed, it means his body chemistry isn’t in tune with yours as he just can not relax with you… Rethink at this stage if you want to proceed further. If he is incapable of handling a kiss, you can imagine what he will be in a more delicate & sensual sexual position.
Please note while the sexual act isn’t the end of & be all of a relationship, at the same time, it’s an inseparable part of it anyway. Sex holds a couple together as a bond, & helps them to glide through life through thick & thin. So concentrate on that kiss before you take off your clothes as this is the most significant precursor to all that follows. In a relationship & in life.
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